My Wishes

Where can your next of kin find it in the event of your death? Sometimes a Will can be lost simply because no one knew where to look for it. If you don't have a Will, consider creating one using Bare's online Will platform.

Where can your next of kin learn about the various service providers they will need to work with? For example who you bank with, your superannuation provider or which digital platforms you use and they will need access to.

Are there are any specific people you want next of kin to notify? Include any ways in which you want these people to be notified, for example notices within local newspapers. Perhaps there are specific people you don’t want notified.

Nowadays, people have widely varying opinions on what gatherings should be like. Some people would prefer a quiet, intimate occasion where friends and family can share memories. Some people love the idea of a traditional service and others prefer a big party in their honour. How do you want your life to be celebrated? Specify any wishes you have in regards to the type of funeral you would like.

Music at a funeral can be a powerful way of reflecting your personality and experiences with loved ones. Is there any music you would like included in a service?

Are there any passages, poems or readings that are important to you that you want included at your funeral?

Consider writing your own eulogy. What lessons do you want to impart to those you care about and the world at large? This is something that can bring comfort to loved ones.

There are many different options available. Some wish to stay with loved ones, while others have preferences in where they would like family members to scatter.

Are there any specific elements you’d like included that are not already covered? You might also note down any specific memorabilia you would like present at your service, or a particular item of clothing/colour you’d like people to wear.